Trans men, assigned female at birth, are often small and at a physical disadvantage when dealing with an attacker. Trans women, on the other hand, while retaining the size that comes from testosterone, lose their former strength as estrogen takes effect. Both are often targeted for harassment and even violence because of who they are. Learning how to defend ourselves, regardless of our size or strength, is, therefore, very important to our community. TransMentors International, Inc. presents these workshops to empower the men and women of the Phoenix trans community to live without fear.

These self-defense workshops will be led by a local trans woman, and are slightly different from formal training. She will teach awareness as well as simple techniques designed to help avoid and fend off attackers. The goal is to teach basic techniques, and variations, that will help to empower and break down the fear that naturally arises when attacked. The workshops will cover different ways to break away from grabs, whether from the rear, the side or the front, different blocking techniques, and the proper way to punch and kick. You'll also learn fighting stances, and different stretches that not only will loosen the body, but will also build stabilizer muscles to help with balance, which is important in self-defense.

Given the nature of these workshops, attendance at the first session is mandatory and a commitment to attend all four sessions is encouraged. Please arrive promptly, and dress comfortably in loose clothing. A notepad may also be useful. Bottled water will be provided.

Although these workshops are offered free of charge, donations to support the activities of TransMentors International are encouraged and appreciated.

For more information or to register, email This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or call (877) 366-3888

About The Instructor: Nysi has spent her whole life admiring everything that has to do with martial arts. She has studied Red Dragon Karate, Japanese Kempo, Tae Kwon Do, Green Mantis Kung-Fu, Wing Chun, Capoera, Ninjitsu, and Chinese Kenpo. She finally settled on Kenpo, a true mixed martial art, becoming a third-degree brown belt (schichkyu), and worked as an instructor for two years.

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TransMentors International, Inc. is 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that provides aid, support and assistance to trans-identified individuals, including online discussion forums, personal mentoring, emergency housing assistance and health, faith and other resource referrals. More details can be found at www.TransMentors.org or by calling (877) 366-3888.

The country's fifth largest city, Phoenix, AZ, served as my home from 1953 to 1961, then again from 1966 to 2000. I arrived there because my military father received orders to Luke Air Force Base, located west of Phoenix. In that year, the city's population had only reached 100,000 people. My parent's bought their first (and only) home in 1955, in an area that later became Maryvale. This predated John F. Long, the builder who pretty much created Maryvale, and since no one else had moved into any of those other homes yet, we were the official very first residents of this new tiny section of tract homes.

In 1997, my life as Monica began, changing not only the obvious, but internally as well. I started my activism for the trans community in 1998 and by the time I left in June of 2000, myself and a few others had accomplished enough to give the gay, lesbian and bisexual people of Phoenix a new respect for transgender people. However, shortly after I left, activism in the transgender community came to a halt. "Why?" I don't know.

It didn't stay that way.

Early this year, I made friends with Toni D'orsay, a wonderful trans woman in the Phoenix area who got involved in activism in a big way. With her help and others, I came to Phoenix for Pride and I had no idea what I would find when I arrived. The surprise I got at all the activity in the trans community went beyond my wildest dreams.

Even though Phoenix does not have any non-discrimination law covering LGBT people, the activities of the community can be large and well attended, as in Pride. The trans community has not let any moss grow around their feet in the activities arena. Of course, moss doesn't grow very easily in the desert.

I discovered that the Phoenix trans community has built a network of organizations and other important elements to help trans people in several ways. The Arizona Trans Alliance, headed up by Erica Keppler, has become the activism arm of the community, having a meeting at least once a month at. TG Harmony, the open group still exists, as does Alpha Zeta, the Tri Ess Chapter I helped get started in 1983. Michael Brown and Toni also run Genderific, a group for trans men and women that meets every two weeks, and Toni operates a group called TransEmpowerment Advocates every week.

Phoenix also has at least half dozen homes in various locations throughout the Valley who take in homeless and disadvantaged trans people. On top of that, they have a new halfway house for trans people called "This is H.O.W.," (Honesty, Openmindedness, Willingness) that also helps those in need. Atlanta maybe smaller then Phoenix, but the Atlanta Metro Area is larger than the Phoenix Metro Area, yet there is nothing coming close to what exists in the Valley of the Sun.

During my short stay, I met some amazing people, any one of them I would be proud to work with here in Atlanta. Michele Finn works at the Phoenix VA facility and started a support group at the VA. I see her helping the Transgender American Veterans Association in the near future. Jillian Barfield operates an on-line, international job bank for transgender people that can be found at www.TJobBank.com. If anyone needs a job or knows companies who will hire trans people, you need to go to her website.

On top of the other things Michael does, he runs TransMentors International and Toni is on the board. This organization puts trans people who wish to mentor new trans people in touch with those who would like mentoring. What has happened in an informal way for decades has now become more direct and effective thanks to Michael. Also, Toni is thinking of running for a political off ice in 2012.

I actually started typing this article on my flight home from Phoenix. I had a fantastic time in my old home town, thanks to people like Maria DeNicola, Michael, Jillian, Erica, Michele, Toni and a host of others, too many to mention. I lay my head back on the headrest on my tight passenger seat with a huge smile on my face. I am going back to Atlanta, full of pride of the trans community in Phoenix. It has become a city with resources that can now help a new person who moves there. Thank you all for this great experience. I can't wait to see you all again.

(I did see Toni and Erica during Lobby Days in DC a week later.)

Source:  http://www.monicahelms.com/blog